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Post by RiddleN on Mar 2, 2007 22:11:14 GMT -5
>>FOR ONLY TWO QUESTIONS, THIS IS PRETTY DAMN ACCURATE FOR ME. 7 - the Adventurer
You chose AX - your Enneagram type is SEVEN (aka "The Enthusiast"). "I am happy and open to new things" Adventurers are energetic, lively, and optimistic. They want to contribute to the world. How to Get Along with Me * Give me companionship, affection, and freedom. * Engage with me in stimulating conversation and laughter. * Appreciate my grand visions and listen to my stories. * Don't try to change my style. Accept me the way I am. * Be responsible for youself. I dislike clingy or needy people. * Don't tell me what to do. What I Like About Being a Seven * being optimistic and not letting life's troubles get me down * being spontaneous and free-spirited * being outspoken and outrageous. It's part of the fun. * being generous and trying to make the world a better place * having the guts to take risks and to try exciting adventures * having such varied interests and abilities What's Hard About Being a Seven * not having enough time to do all the things I want * not completing things I start * not being able to profit from the benefits that come from specializing; not making a commitment to a career * having a tendency to be ungrounded; getting lost in plans or fantasies * feeling confined when I'm in a one-to-one relationship Sevens as Children Often * are action oriented and adventuresome * drum up excitement * prefer being with other children to being alone * finesse their way around adults * dream of the freedom they'll have when they grow up Sevens as Parents * are often enthusiastic and generous * want their children to be exposed to many adventures in life * may be too busy with their own activities to be attentive Take this quiz: www.okcupid.com/tests/take?testid=6711512663497470889
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Post by rpgfan on Mar 3, 2007 2:32:59 GMT -5
2 - the Helper Thanks for taking the test ! you chose CX - your Enneagram type is TWO (aka "The Charmer").
"I must help others"
Helpers are warm, concerned, nurturing, and sensitive to other people's needs.
How to Get Along with Me
Tell me that you appreciate me. Be specific. Share fun times with me. Take an interest in my problems, though I will probably try to focus on yours. Let me know that I am important and special to you. Be gentle if you decide to criticize me. In Intimate Relationships
Reassure me that I am interesting to you. Reassure me often that you love me. Tell me I'm attractive and that you're glad to be seen with me. What I Like About Being a Two
being able to relate easily to people and to make friends knowing what people need and being able to make their lives better being generous, caring, and warm being sensitive to and perceptive about others' feelings being enthusiastic and fun-loving, and having a good sense of humor What's Hard About Being a Two
not being able to say no having low self-esteem feeling drained from overdoing for others not doing things I really like to do for myself for fear of being selfish criticizing myself for not feeling as loving as I think I should being upset that others don't tune in to me as much as I tume in to them working so hard to be tactful and considerate that I suppress my real feelings Twos as Children Often
are very sensitive to disapproval and criticism try hard to please their parents by being helpful and understanding are outwardly compliant are popular or try to be popular with other children act coy, precocious, or dramatic in order to get attention are clowns and jokers (the more extroverted Twos), or quiet and shy (the more introverted Twos) Twos as Parents
are good listeners, love their children unconditionally, and are warm and encouraging (or suffer guilt if they aren't) are often playful with their children wonder: "Am I doing it right?" "Am I giving enough?" "Have I caused irreparable damage?" can become fiercely protective Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele Yeah, I thought this was really accurate as well. There is some things in the "What's Hard About Being a Two" section, but that is it.
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Post by halfdaemon on Mar 4, 2007 22:57:25 GMT -5
yeah, this is definitely me.
6 - the Questioner Thanks for taking the test ! you chose CY - your Enneagram type is SIX (aka "The Loyalist").
"I am affectionate and skeptical"
Questioners are responsible, trustworthy, and value loyalty to family, friends, groups, and causes. Their personalities range broadly from reserved and timid to outspoken and confrontative.
How to Get Along with Me
* Be direct and clear. * Listen to me carefully. * Don't judge me for my anxiety. * Work things through with me. * Reassure me that everything is OK between us. * Laugh and make jokes with me. * Gently push me toward new experiences. * Try not to overreact to my overreacting.
What I Like About Being a Six
* being committed and faithful to family and friends * being responsible and hardworking * being compassionate toward others * having intellect and wit * being a nonconformist * confronting danger bravely * being direct and assertive
What's Hard About Being a Six
* the constant push and pull involved in trying to make up my mind * procrastinating because of fear of failure; having little confidence in myself * fearing being abandoned or taken advantage of * exhausting myself by worrying and scanning for danger * wishing I had a rule book at work so I could do everything right * being too critical of myself when I haven't lived up to my expectations
Sixes as Children Often
* are friendly, likable, and dependable, and/or sarcastic, bossy, and stubborn * are anxious and hypervigilant; anticipate danger * form a team of "us against them" with a best friend or parent * look to groups or authorities to protect them and/or question authority and rebel * are neglected or abused, come from unpredictable or alcoholic families, and/or take on the fearfulness of an overly anxious parent
Sixes as Parents
* are often loving, nurturing, and have a strong sense of duty * are sometimes reluctant to give their children independence * worry more than most that their children will get hurt * sometimes have trouble saying no and setting boundaries
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Daisy
people ask you to teach them about your milkshake
Daisies don't tell...
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Post by Daisy on Mar 6, 2007 13:38:44 GMT -5
your Enneagram type is FOUR (aka "The Romantic")
"I am unique"
Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.
How to Get Along with Me
Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me. Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself. Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision. Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little. Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!
What I Like About Being a Four my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level my ability to establish warm connections with people admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor being unique and being seen as unique by others having aesthetic sensibilities being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me
What's Hard About Being a Four experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved
feeling guilty when I disappoint people feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me expecting too much from myself and life fearing being abandoned
obsessing over resentments longing for what I don't have
Fours as Children Often have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original games are very sensitive feel that they don't fit in believe they are missing something that other people have
attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc. become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood
feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce)
Fours as Parents help their children become who they really are support their children's creativity and originality are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings
are sometimes overly critical or overly protective are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed
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Daisy
people ask you to teach them about your milkshake
Daisies don't tell...
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Post by Daisy on Mar 6, 2007 13:40:20 GMT -5
I agree...this was totally accurate. It's neat that none of us have been the same one yet, either.
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Post by rpgfan on Mar 7, 2007 1:15:14 GMT -5
Yeah, that is interesting. In some of the other quizes, we have recieved the same results.
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Post by halfdaemon on Mar 7, 2007 18:59:43 GMT -5
guess we're a diverse bunch
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Post by rpgfan on Mar 8, 2007 1:47:10 GMT -5
And that is a good thing.
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Post by halfdaemon on Mar 8, 2007 20:07:42 GMT -5
most likely.
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Post by rpgfan on Mar 8, 2007 23:51:49 GMT -5
I don't see how it would be a bad thing.
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Post by halfdaemon on Mar 9, 2007 18:31:34 GMT -5
it could be if one of us was jewish and another an anti-semite (sp?)....that would not be good diversity.
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Post by rpgfan on Mar 10, 2007 0:44:36 GMT -5
Yeah, true, but that is a little bit different from your personality.
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Post by Binarygray on Mar 15, 2007 17:44:37 GMT -5
Not Close 1- the Perfectionist Thanks for taking the test ! you chose CZ - your Enneagram type is ONE (aka "The Reformer").
"I do everything the right way"No I Don't
Perfectionists are realistic, conscientious, and principled. They strive to live up to their high ideals.
How to Get Along with Me
* Take your share of the responsibility so I don't end up with all the work. I don't care * Acknowledge my achievements.maybe but I don't like people thanking me to do job that I just need to do anyway * I'm hard on myself. Reassure me that I'm fine the way I am. * Tell me that you value my advice. * Be fair and considerate, as I am.This is very true * Apologize if you have been unthoughtful. It will help me to forgive.I hate apologize just for the sake of apologizing, I rather have nothing is it is not sinsear * Gently encourage me to lighten up and to laugh at myself when I get uptight, but hear my worries first.
What I Like About Being a One
* being self-disciplined and able to accomplish a great dealI wish * working hard to make the world a better placeI wish.. 2 * having high standards and ethics; not compromising myselfI wish... 3 * being reasonable, responsible, and dedicated in everything I do * being able to put facts together, coming to good understandings, and figuring out wise solutions * being the best I can be and bringing out the best in other people
What's Hard About Being a One
* being disappointed with myself or others when my expectations are not met * feeling burdened by too much responsibilityYes * thinking that what I do is never good enoughYes * not being appreciated for what I do for people * being upset because others aren't trying as hard as I am * obsessing about what I did or what I should doYes * being tense, anxious, and taking things too seriouslyYes X2
Ones as Children Often
* criticize themselves in anticipation of criticism from othersYes * refrain from doing things that they think might not come out perfectYes * focus on living up to the expectations of their parents and teachersNo * are very responsible; may assume the role of parent * hold back negative emotions ("good children aren't angry")
Ones as Parents
* teach their children responsibility and strong moral values * are consistent and fair * discipline firmlyNo... not firmly
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Post by RiddleN on Mar 15, 2007 20:02:53 GMT -5
Well, it looks like yours is the farthest off from how you are. But it still seems at least half-way correct.
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Post by nintndofanboy on Mar 16, 2007 22:04:35 GMT -5
4- the Individualist Thanks for taking the test ! you chose BY - your Enneagram type is FOUR (aka "The Romantic")
"I am unique"
Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.
How to Get Along with Me
Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me. Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself. Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision. Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little. Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting! What I Like About Being a Four
my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level my ability to establish warm connections with people admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor being unique and being seen as unique by others having aesthetic sensibilities being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me What's Hard About Being a Four
experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved feeling guilty when I disappoint people feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me expecting too much from myself and life fearing being abandoned obsessing over resentments longing for what I don't have Fours as Children Often
have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original game s are very sensitive feel that they don't fit in believe they are missing something that other people have attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc. become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce) Fours as Parents
help their children become who they really are support their children's creativity and originality are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings are sometimes overly critical or overly protective are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed
its right, but i feel its too vauge
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